St. Louis Elopement Venue

Intimate Elopements at 1860 Schulhaus

An elopement is an intimate, meaningful way to begin your marriage — focused on the two of you and the moment you commit your lives to one another. While some elopements include a few guests and others are just the couple, the heart of the experience is simplicity, connection, and intention. At 1860 Schulhaus, elopements aren’t an afterthought or a scaled-down wedding day. They’re designed to feel complete, beautiful, and deeply personal from start to finish.Our historic Schulhaus in New Melle, Missouri offers private access to both indoor and outdoor spaces, giving you the freedom to choose your ceremony setting and move throughout the property for portraits and quiet celebration time. With thoughtful inclusions like a cake and champagne toast for the couple, plus the option to include up to 25 guests, your elopement here feels romantic, relaxed, and truly centered on what matters most — the two of you.

Why Couple Choose Elopements

Couples choose elopements because they want their wedding day to feel simple, meaningful, and focused on what matters most. The day can move at a relaxed pace without the expectations and logistics of a larger event, allowing the couple to be fully present with each other. An elopement creates space for a quiet, intentional ceremony and the freedom to celebrate in a way that feels authentic and personal.

Is a Micro Wedding the Same as an Elopement?

While micro weddings and elopements both focus on intentional celebrations, they are not the same. A micro wedding typically includes a small guest list, a ceremony, and often a reception — simply on a smaller scale than a traditional wedding.

An elopement is even more intimate. Most elopements involve just the couple or a very small number of guests and focus primarily on the ceremony itself. The day is intentionally simple, allowing couples to exchange vows in a meaningful setting without the structure or expectations of a full wedding celebration.

Both options offer a more personal experience, but elopements prioritize privacy and simplicity, while micro weddings still include many of the elements of a traditional wedding day.

Is an Elopement Right for You?

What Makes Elopement Ceremonies at 1860 Schulhaus Different

Designed Specifically for Intimate Ceremonies

1860 Schulhaus was intentionally designed for smaller celebrations where the focus stays on the couple and the moment. Rather than feeling oversized or formal, the space naturally supports intimate ceremonies that feel calm, personal, and meaningful.

Our elopement experience is perfect for couples who want a private ceremony for just the two of them or a small group of loved ones. With fewer moving parts and less structure than a traditional wedding, the focus remains exactly where it should be — on your vows and the beginning of your marriage.

One Beautiful Location for Your Entire Experience

One of the things couples appreciate most about eloping at 1860 Schulhaus is the ability to enjoy the entire experience in one place. Instead of coordinating multiple locations, everything happens within the same peaceful setting.

Couples can exchange vows outdoors with the woods as their backdrop, step inside for photos in front of the historic stone fireplace, and celebrate with a toast or quiet moment together afterward. The day flows naturally without timelines, travel, or added logistics.

A Setting That Feels Personal, Not Overwhelming

1860 Schulhaus blends historic charm, natural light, and flexible indoor and outdoor spaces that create a beautiful setting for an intimate elopement ceremony. The scale of the venue allows the experience to feel warm and welcoming rather than large or impersonal.

Couples also appreciate our flexible vendor policy, which allows them to bring in the photographer, officiant, or vendors that best match their style and vision. This flexibility makes it easy to create a meaningful elopement experience while still enjoying the character and charm of a historic Missouri elopement venue.

A More Meaningful Way to Celebrate

At 1860 Schulhaus, elopements are about more than choosing a smaller ceremony. They create space for a wedding experience that feels calm, personal, and centered on the moment you commit your lives to one another.

Our historic venue provides a beautiful setting for couples who want an intimate elopement ceremony in Missouri without the expectations or structure of a traditional wedding day. With both indoor and outdoor ceremony locations, natural light throughout the space, and private access to the property, couples can celebrate in a way that feels relaxed and meaningful.

Located near St. Louis and St. Charles County, 1860 Schulhaus offers couples a peaceful setting for an elopement that blends historic charm with a cozy, welcoming atmosphere. Many couples choose to exchange vows outdoors under the arbor with the woods as their backdrop, then enjoy time indoors for photos, a toast, or a quiet moment together.

For couples searching for a St. Louis elopement venue or an intimate place to say their vows in Missouri, 1860 Schulhaus offers a setting designed for meaningful, intentional ceremonies.

If you’re considering an elopement in the St. Louis area, we would love to welcome you to 1860 Schulhaus and help you create a ceremony that feels authentic, relaxed, and unforgettable.

Book a Tour

What’s included in our Elopement Package?

View Pricing

Our elopement package is designed to keep planning simple while still allowing couples to personalize their experience. Instead of coordinating multiple vendors and locations, everything you need for a meaningful ceremony is already thoughtfully in place.

Each package includes:

  • A private 2-hour reservation of the venue

  • Exclusive access to both indoor and outdoor spaces

  • Choice of ceremony location (outdoor ceremony site or indoor historic space)

  • Accommodation for up to 25 guests

  • Time for portraits throughout the property

  • Champagne toast for the couple

  • Cake for the couple

  • Officiant to perform the ceremony

Couples also have the flexibility to bring in their own licensed and insured vendors (photographer or officiant if they have someone special they prefer to perform the ceremony)

Frequently Asked Questions

  • We welcome you and up to 25 guests to share your special moment and celebrate afterwards.

  • Our micro-wedding package is designed to simplify planning while still allowing couples to personalize their celebration.

    Each package includes:

    • 5 hours of venue time, with the option to add additional hours

    • Space for both ceremony and reception in one location

    • Indoor ceremony option by the fireplace or outdoor ceremony backed by the woods

    • Full use of the bride and groom suites

    • Curated décor and table styling already in place

    • A wedding cake for the couple

    • Champagne toast for all guests

    Couples also have the flexibility to bring in their own licensed and insured vendors.

  • Yes. While many essentials are included to simplify planning, couples still have plenty of flexibility to personalize their celebration. You are welcome to bring in your preferred licensed vendors, incorporate additional décor, and design a wedding experience that reflects your style.

  • Yes! We have spaces for both ceremonies and receptions. Our venue offers both indoor and outdoor options, including our outdoor pergola and indoor stone fireplace that create beautiful backdrops for ceremonies.

  • Absolutely. Micro-weddings still include many of the traditions couples love—ceremony, dinner, toasts, cake cutting, and dancing—just on a smaller scale. With fewer guests and simplified logistics, couples often find the day feels more relaxed and more meaningful.

  • Yes, We offer Elopement packages for those looking for small intimate ceremony without the full reception. Please see our packages for more details.

  • Besides weddings, we host baby showers, wedding showers, rehearsal dinners, birthdays, corporate events, and community gatherings. We offer both daytime (10am-2pm) and evening (5pm-12am) rental options for these events.

  • Based on our experience, many of our weddings are typically booked about six months in advance rather than a full year- but we have been known to do micro weddings in less than 90 days- based on availability of course! Contact us to check current availability for your preferred date.