How to Get a Marriage License in Missouri (St. Louis & St. Charles County Guide)
If you’re planning a wedding in the St. Louis or St. Charles area, the process is simpler than most couples expect — but there are a few important details you don’t want to miss.
If you’re newly engaged, one of the first questions you’ll likely Google is:
“How do we actually get a marriage license?”
This guide walks you through exactly how to get your marriage license in Missouri, including specific details for St. Louis County and St. Charles County, so you can move forward with confidence.
Where to Apply for a Marriage License in Missouri
In Missouri, you can apply for your marriage license at any county Recorder of Deeds office — it does not have to be the county where you live.
For couples in the St. Louis area, the most common options are:
We always recommend checking directly with the county office before your visit, as hours and requirements can occasionally change.
Do You Have to Apply in the Same County You’re Getting Married In?
No — and this is one of the biggest misconceptions.
You can:
live in one county
apply in another
get married somewhere completely different
As long as your marriage license is issued in Missouri, it’s valid anywhere in the state.
What You Need to Bring?
When you go to apply, both parties must typically be present and bring:
A valid government-issued photo ID (driver’s license or passport)
Social Security number (you don’t need the card, just the number)
Payment for the license fee
If either person has been previously married, you may need:
the date your last marriage ended
How Much Does a Marriage License Cost in Missouri?
Costs can vary slightly by county, but most couples can expect:
$50–$60 total
Payment methods vary by location, so it’s always a good idea to check ahead of time.
Is There a Waiting Period?
No — Missouri does not have a waiting period.
You can:
apply for your license
receive it the same day
and legally get married immediately
This is one of the reasons Missouri is a great state for both weddings and elopements.
How Long Is a Missouri Marriage License Valid?
Once issued, your marriage license is valid for:
30 days
If you don’t use it within that timeframe, you’ll need to apply again.
Do You Need a Blood Test to Get Married in Missouri?
No — blood tests are not required in Missouri.
This is another common question couples search for, especially if they’re comparing requirements across states.
Can You Get Married the Same Day You Apply?
Yes.
Because there’s no waiting period, you can:
apply
receive your license
and have your ceremony the same day
This is especially helpful for:
elopements
intimate weddings
last-minute planning timelines
What Happens After the Ceremony?
After your ceremony:
your officiant will sign the license
it must be returned to the county where it was issued
Once recorded, you can request certified copies for:
name changes
legal documentation
personal records
Tips for Couples Planning a Wedding in Missouri
Here are a few practical tips that can make the process even smoother:
Apply a few days before your wedding to avoid any last-minute stress
Double-check office hours — some locations have limited days or times
Bring the correct form of payment
Keep your license in a safe place before your ceremony
Planning a Micro Wedding or Intimate Wedding in the St. Louis Area?
Once you’ve handled the legal side of things, the next step is creating a wedding experience that actually feels meaningful.
That’s where micro weddings have become such a popular choice.
At 1860 Schulhaus, we work with couples who want:
a more personal and intentional celebration
a space that feels warm, welcoming, and thoughtfully designed
flexibility to create a day that reflects what matters most to them
If you’re exploring options, you can learn more here:
→ [Micro Wedding Packages in St. Louis & St. Charles County]
→ [Schedule a Tour of 1860 Schulhaus]
Frequently Asked Questions About Marriage Licenses in Missouri
Do both people have to be present to apply?
Yes, in most cases both parties must appear in person.
Can we apply online?
Some counties offer online pre-applications, but you’ll still need to appear in person to complete the process.
Can someone else pick up our license for us?
No, the couple must be present to receive it.
Do we need witnesses?
Missouri does not require witnesses, but your officiant must complete the license.
Can out-of-state couples get married in Missouri?
Yes — you do not have to be a Missouri resident.
Final Thoughts
Getting your marriage license in Missouri is one of the simplest parts of the wedding planning process — once you know what to expect.
With no waiting period, straightforward requirements, and flexibility across counties, it’s designed to be easy for couples.
And once that piece is in place, you can focus on what really matters:
Creating a wedding day that feels like you.
If you’re planning to apply soon, you can review the current St. Charles County or St. Louis County marriage license requirements before your visit.
